Step out of the routine
When everyday life loses its spark, something new can feel exciting. Get to know someone who also wants an easygoing flirt, without having to turn it into a new relationship.
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Casual dating, at your pace.
Casual dating for adults 18+
Less swiping.
More chemistry.
Ready for a little less routine and a little more desire? Explore new connections, exciting chats and the chemistry you have been missing.
Website preview: registration is not open yet. The features and offers below describe the planned service. No account, trial or invoice is created.
Try it completely free for 7 days
Cancel during the trial.
- No credit card needed
- 100% contact guarantee
- Use a nickname
What are you in the mood for?
There is more to you than your everyday routine.
Single or attached, curious or experienced: sometimes you miss the feeling of being desired. Casual dating starts with what you want – a discreet flirt, an exciting chat or an adventure you both look forward to.
Explore something new
Curious about what you enjoy? Whether it is your first flirt or your next adventure, talk about your wishes, discover shared interests and choose whom to get closer to at your own pace.
Just chat for now
Sometimes a conversation that stirs your imagination is enough. Exchange messages, flirt and enjoy the attention. You decide together whether to keep chatting or meet.
Make the first move
Fewer hurdles. More room for chemistry.
Try it completely free for 7 days
Explore Bums.date free for seven days. Cancel during the trial.
No credit card needed
Start your trial without a credit card and discover who you click with.
100% contact guarantee
Contact means another member sends you a message or replies to yours. It is the start of an exchange, not a promise of a meeting.
Your way in
Make space for a new connection
Share your preferences
Tell us what kind of connection interests you and how far you would like to look.
Create your profile
Choose a nickname and share enough about yourself to give others a reason to say hello.
Explore and connect
Get to know people after signup and see where a conversation leads.
Discretion & trust
Show your personality. Keep some things to yourself.
Want to flirt without making your private life public? Start with a nickname and choose which pictures and personal details you share with others.
Your nickname, not your real name
Choose a profile name you feel comfortable with. Decide when you want to tell another member more about yourself.
No public photo required
You can start without a public profile photo. Your interests and wishes can still give someone a reason to send you a message.
Share pictures with someone you choose
Send a picture in chat when you want to get closer to someone. Recipients can save or share images, so choose what you send thoughtfully.
Good to know
Questions before you begin?
What is casual dating on Bums.date?
It is a way for adults to explore a flirt, a conversation or the possibility of meeting someone, without deciding in advance where a connection must lead. Both people choose what feels right.
Can I look beyond a big city?
The intended flow lets you choose a preferred search distance, including a wider area if you live in a smaller town. The number of relevant profiles in any place cannot be guaranteed.
Can I start without a public photo?
Yes. You can use your profile without a public photo and share pictures with individual members in chat. Details about your interests and wishes give others more ways to start a conversation. Adding a photo is your choice. Remember that a recipient can save or share pictures sent in chat.
How discreet is my profile?
You introduce yourself with a nickname and choose which personal details and pictures to share with others. A nickname does not guarantee complete anonymity. Share names, contact details or recognisable photos only when you feel comfortable.
What does the 100% contact guarantee mean?
Contact is an incoming message from another member or their reply to a message you sent. Automated messages and system notifications do not count. The guarantee covers that contact, not a meeting, a relationship or a reply to every message.
Do I need a credit card?
No credit card is needed for the intended invoice-only membership. The selected membership is payable by invoice after its actual trial period if you have not cancelled in time.
How does the seven-day trial work?
The planned offer begins with seven free days. Cancel before the trial ends and no membership invoice is due. Otherwise, the full price of your chosen cycle is invoiced after seven days. The exact cancellation deadline and method will be shown before membership begins.
What does membership cost, and does it renew?
The planned choices are CHF 99 for three months or CHF 299 for twelve months, invoiced in full after the seven-day trial unless you cancel in time. The chosen cycle then renews for the same length and price unless cancelled by the applicable deadline. Final terms will be shown before membership begins.
How do I cancel?
You can cancel during the trial or before a later renewal. The exact method, deadline and effect on access will be shown before membership begins. This local preview starts no trial or membership.
Curious?
Ready for a hello that makes you feel something?
Discover who you click with. Try Bums.date completely free for 7 days – no credit card needed. Cancel during the trial.